By Suzanne Carré

This is the second non-sexual vampire kissing technique. Although you need to be a vampire to achieve the most from this kiss, a modification will allow any mere mortal from gaining some measure of satisfaction from the Virgin kiss.

Having classified it, it is probably not correct to assign the Virgin Kiss to a non-sexual class of kisses. The vampires call the technique the Virgin kiss specifically because it doesn’t involve any sexual contact, in fact the kiss doesn’t require the participants to touch anywhere, especially not the mouth. From the vampire point of view the Virgin kiss is intense, shared between lovers, and is highly sexually rewarding despite having no contact at all. Confused yet? Let me explain.

Primarily, the Virgin kiss is intended for the psychic exchange instead of physical involvement with the focus to the vampire sharing of feelings by thought processes alone. Vampires have the advantage over us in that they experience mind-blowing sex all in their minds, without even being in the same room. The problem is we are not mind-readers, even though we’d sometimes wish we were, so a human modification of the Virgin kiss puts it into a category of “what to do before, after or instead of sex” but certainly not into a list with what we assume is a true kiss.

How to Give a Virgin Kiss

  • Be with the one you love. The Virgin kiss is designed to increase intimacy so it makes sense to share it with someone you care about in a romantic way.
  • Go to a quiet place to be alone. In the Virgin kiss, you need to fill your mind with your loved one—so go to a place where the world is not invading and you can be together uninterrupted.
  • Relax and get comfortable. You can share a Virgin kiss in any posture: standing, sitting, or reclined, but do your body a favor and make sure you are able to completely relax without collapsing once you embark on the kiss. For beginners I recommend lying down together.
  • Get close without touching. Proximity is very important for the Virgin kiss but fondling is not allowed. If you are together in bed, lie on your side to make the kiss easier.
  • Smile at each other. Before starting, don’t be tense and worried it won’t work to the vampire expectations. What happens in the human variation of the Virgin kiss is a special moment you’ve shared with someone special. Enjoy it.
  • Use your eyes. Look at your partner and create an image of their face in your mind. When you start the kiss, you will concentrate on their face in your memory.
  • Prepare the senses by closing your eyes. This is where the Virgin kiss starts properly. With your eyes closed, the only senses you have left are your hearing and smell. Heighten your mental acuity by denying the use of your eyes and your sense of touch.
  • Absorb your lover. Listen to their breathing. Be aware of the perfume they use. Match these cues about your lover to the image you made in your mind.
  • Relax your mouth and imagine you are kissing. This is where it helps if you’re a vampire to entice the mind, prepare to kiss, but never letting the lips meet so gathering the anticipation.

The effects of the Virgin kiss vary according to how aroused you got your mind. It doesn’t matter if you derive only a pleasant sensation of relaxation—it means the Virgin kiss worked otherwise you would feel nothing. In my research, the closest thing I’ve found to the Virgin kiss performed by human beings is in a South American movie. It worked for the characters.

Variations to the Virgin kiss is where the couple recline naked. In this form, the Virgin kiss is as close as vampires get to achieving foreplay in the human sense of the word. The vampire couple use the kiss to arouse their minds and then once pleasantly stimulated, the couple move on to indulge in the sexual kisses.

The next group of kisses is the so-called Wandering kisses. Prepare your lips for an adventure.

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