By Suzanne Carré
The Sexual kisses of vampires include kissing techniques that are usually wet kisses except one. The degree of tongue use varies from zero (minimal) to lavish depending on the mood of each kiss. While the French kiss is practically indistinguishable from a Soul kiss or other human-styled tongue kisses, the Sexual kisses of vampires are very distinctive with their own method of arousal. They are also very different from the Lust Kisses of vampires, which will follow this group, and have the distinction of demanding even more tongue work.
Sexual Kisses derive their name from the way vampires incorporate these particular techniques in lovemaking. They are very different from the Non-sexual, which are purely preliminary kisses, and the Wandering kisses favored by vampires for their use in-between love sessions. Sexual kisses do just that, they induce sexual feelings and promote sexual behavior.
Sexual kisses are also very distinct from the other kissing techniques I have already described in that they are fast and exciting, not leisurely affairs. The Sexual kisses are lip-orientated kisses requiring some degree of skill any adventurer of the kiss can gather with a little practice. They are mainly wet kisses, with one exception, and those kisses that are wet integrate the tongue in very subtle ways. If anything can be compared to the Vampire Sexual kisses, they are more respectful than the tongue kisses we practice in that they consider the kisser, as well as the one receiving the kiss.
There are three main groups of Sexual Kisses, each will follow with their own discussion and how to instructions. Each group of kisses have their own variations and once tried, I’m sure the inventiveness of any kisser will add to the diversity of these kissing techniques. Please read on, don’t be shy and try, and importantly—enjoy!
Warning—
Sexual Kisses are not for use in a social context because they are not trivial contacts with the lips. It is strongly recommended that you know the person, very well and trust them, if you intend to experiment with vampire Sexual kisses.
How to give Vampire Sexual Kisses
- Prepare the place.
Treat the Sexual kisses as part of the sexual experience you share with your partner intimately. Choose a place where using the Vampire Sexual kisses will not create any embarrassment.
- Prepare the mood.
Sexual kisses of vampires are primarily used in what they consider the acquaintance period, that is the idea of waiting a short time after coupling before starting the excitement. Vampires do not understand the human idea of foreplay but any of the Sexual kisses can be incorporated into the fun preliminaries of lovemaking.
- Prepare your lips.
The Sexual kisses all require a relaxed mouth so let your lips be loose not tense. A good way to prepare the lips is leave them natural, the way they are designed to form a sensual margin of the mouth. Now practice by kissing your finger. Hold your finger to suggest you’re asking for quiet, and when your lips contact the skin, tense them just enough to resist the pressure. Your lips need to stay slightly open but become aware how the lips seem to fold back and cushion the finger with their bulk. Using this tension, you now bring the lips together, as if clasping an object between them. You will feel the skin on your finger being pinched ever so gently.
The key to kissing the sexual way is to use the body of the lips to envelope and hold your partner’s lips. The kissing motion is a slight grabbing action, using your lips, as described above. The brief hold of the lips is repeated, usually changing the angle of approach, and punctuated with sensual offerings of your tongue in wet kisses. We tend to use the quickly changing encounter to introduce a kiss then press the lips firmly to elongate the kiss. Vampires do not keep the kiss static this way because this is seen as the quickest way to decrease the sensations. Regardless of how you apply the vampire style, incorporate this basic technique for the Vampire Sexual kisses and you will find it works with many other kissing styles.
- Prepare your partner.
If you are in the mood to kiss, entice your partner by offering the Sexual kisses in a subtle way. The Sexual kisses are all very intense, so warm up the reception by using other kisses as a kind of foreplay. It is highly desirable to capture the mood of your intended by reading the signs of their interest in kissing you. Start with slow gentle kisses and work up to the more exciting so you can fuel the pleasure sensations and not destroy the romance by coming on too fast. Once the Sexual kisses have started, there is very little reason to stop, but they need an introduction otherwise they quickly extinguish their own flames of passion.
The easiest way to introduce an intensely sensual kiss without asking direct questions, and potentially dampening the romance, is to use the Pressing kiss of vampires. Give a Pressing kiss to the corner of the lips. It is not meant to be a kiss for the sake of a kiss but an appeal. Migrate from there to the lips proper and test the receptivity of your partner. A person who does not want to be kissed will not welcome the second contact. An inexperienced kisser might hesitate but the Pressing kiss is not an offensive kiss. From here you can use the preliminaries of each Sexual kiss to increase the mood.
- Share the pleasure.
The Vampire Sexual kisses form a physical conversation of love so don’t do all the “talking” by giving your partner an opportunity to reply. Use their reciprocation as a cue to continue with the same kiss or intensify the technique. Build the sensations until they peak, just as the vampires intended these kisses to do. You cannot kiss yourself so remember the one your kissing, and think vampire, by sharing the sensuality of the Sexual kiss.
Next, we start with the first of the Sexual kisses called the Nibbling Kiss. This is a special technique because it is the only Vampire Sexual kiss to not involve the tongue.
