By Suzanne Carré

Last time I concluded the eight qualities of unconditional vampire love. Now we know the properties of love, then what do we do with it? The vampires use the knowledge they have of love to find love, establish relationships, and give meaning to their existence. We can also benefit from the vampire wisdom concerning love to gain it in our lives.

Love is not elusive, undefinable, and unattainable to vampires. Because they have collected the experience of their kind, over centuries of practice in love, the vampires amassed rules of love for instruction. Importantly, the vampires believe we need to create opportunities for love to have love occur. Vampires see love as spontaneous so it requires only a little help just to set the ideal conditions.

Vampires are bold with their love capacity and the vampire art of seduction fills volumes in their manuals of love. To do any justice to the subject, it really needs its own series of articles, so I think it’s best just to summarize the main points, on how-to get love to work. The following advice constantly repeats throughout their writings and forms a foundation of finding love.

How-to Establish Love Vampire Style

Be yourself.

  • After learning about vampire love, you cannot say you’re boring and uninteresting being you.
  • By now you have prepared your mind for love, so you’re now exciting, because you have love ready on the inside.
  • Trust in the love you have to give you confidence.

Stay ready.

  • You may run into your match at any time, and in any situation, because love is found in the least expected of places.
  • Use the love you’ve created to see others in your “love-light.” The person might be a complete stranger or even someone you know well, but now they appear differently.
  • With love preparing your mind, so you’re receptive to love, then that magic moment is not lost.

Exercise your love.

  • Love grows stale if abandoned on some dusty old shelf in your mind. Get it out for some fresh air by always using your love.
  • Love changes our attitudes to positive and powerful. This has an effect on those around you, so they will see you differently.
  • Get your love working, make it a part of yourself, so it’s in full force when you meet someone special and everything clicks into place.

First impressions?

  • The way you present yourself is considered important in our world but the vampires insist first impressions are essential for sex only. Love is very forgiving in that department.
  • Remember love is not a job interview where you have to impress. Love is about the you in you, not about what you look like.
  • If you are caught in your native (not natural) state, I’m referring here to wearing your favorite old t-shirt and having finger-combed hair, please don’t apologize for the oxygen you breathe—be a WYSIWYG girl/guy. The vampires believe honesty will ground you firmly in sustainable love.

The first time.

  • The first meeting has a high potential for embarrassment. This is especially so if your tongue freezes in terror. Can’t get a sensible word out, then try—wow—you only need your lips and it’s a good way to describe what’s happening.
  • Vampires acknowledge this problem and suggest the power of eye contact and recommend to definitely use your smile.
  • In seduction, the confident vampire directs the prospective. Subtle ways to do this the human way include giving them something or dropping an object (preferably something that won’t break). Use the situation you create to talk.
  • After the meeting, no matter how brief, always thank them for the special moment you shared. They may no know what you’re talking about but it will get them thinking.

Don’t forget to breathe.

It happened—just now—you’ve meet him/her and—oh, my goodness—you said a few things—forgot to ask his/her name—but that’s okay, it was so exciting—so now you have to phone all your friends and tell them—you have to throw a party to celebrate—no—stop!

  • The vampires insist that the first time you feel it, that love might be the real deal, or it might be just a very good feeling.
  • Relax, and work on the next step to get the love properly established.

No insisting.

  • You cannot make someone fall in love with you. You can only make them see you as a potential partner. If it takes a few times to make a difference then you have gained from the experience.
  • The vampires sometimes write on devious ways to trick a person into love but it doesn’t last and it’s not very fair on both of you. Let love be natural.
  • When you didn’t know what love was, you might feel infatuations but that’s for sex not love. If the prospective partner can’t see you, it’s likely they have an infatuation for someone else. Don’t take it personally and try taking it slower by demonstrating your love so they will notice you.

Take it easy.

  • Love is not hard work, controlling our feelings is.
  • We want it all and we want it now. Yes, vampires will tell you love works that fast but only if you don’t run off in the opposite direction because you’ve let your emotions carry you away.

The only way to experience pure love is to practice love every moment of the day. Live love the vampire way to gain from love. Love gives meaning to immortality and likewise it creates depth in our lives.

This topic forms the end of the discussion on vampire prospective of love and sex. Now I want to return to the vampires themselves and investigate more of the myth and why we are so attracted to the undead.